your life, except the power of your captor, and as time goes on, and you rely on him for everything, remember, the first sexual experiences, sadly, were almost certainly with this man. she gave birth to his children, she relied on him for food and clothing, if the tent leaked he was the one who fixed it so her mind in order to safeguard itself from having to think every moment of every day of every month that her life was literally at risk, the mind shuts down and says, i'm with this guy, he has absolute power, we are aligned, i'm with him. >> ernie, we all know the horrible statistics that most abducted children don't make it past 72 hours alive. but, lately, there have been some incredible exceptions, i'm thinking of elizabeth smart, shaun hornbeck, jaycee dugard. do you think there are other kids out there still alive? >> alisyn, i absolutely do.